ARTICLE 15

HOW TO BE IRRESTIBLE TO MEN

By Gladys Alvarez
Miami, Florida

Being irresistible to men is something most women secretly want. The reason I say secretly, is because in today’s world women are supposed to be independent and self-sufficient, needing no man to keep them happy. But regardless of what people think women are “supposed” to do, the fact is women are sexual beings, most are comfortable with their sexuality, and being irresistible and having men desire them is something all women want. Women want men to want them. So how do you make yourself irresistible to men yet at the same time not having to compromise your sexuality?

One of the first things is playing to your strengths. If you know you are more comfortable and in your element in intimate gatherings, such as small dinner parties then don’t try and be the life of the party because all the spotlight will be on you and in most instances you will fail. Don’t ‘play’ outside your comfort zone.

Don’t act like one of the boys. Most men don’t think it’s attractive or sexy when a woman curses like a sailor. Besides it being unattractive, the goal is to make yourself irresistible to men, show them you are a sexual being. You want to them to treat you like a woman, not one of the boys.

If you don’t get your way all of the time don’t moan and complain like a child. Say what you want to say and move on. Women who don’t constantly complain are a huge turn on to men. Another thing to avoid is blaming men for everything. Regardless of your bad mood, men are not the reason you woke on the wrong side of the bed, so blaming them for your life’s troubles is not a good thing.

Go out of your way to do things that men enjoy, something maybe that is out of the norm for you. When a woman tries something new, men find this extremely sexy, especially if it means getting a little dirty. And just because you are doing something completely knew, you don’t have to hide your sexuality. This will make you all the more irresistible to him.

The most important way to be irresistible to men is to just be you. Men aren’t attracted to women, regardless of how sexual they are, if they are trying to be someone else. And don’t play games. Nothing will turn a man off as quick as a woman who’s playing games. Since it is you, you want him to be with, let him get to know the real you from the start.

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